The uber-talented author of 
Frog Prince Paperie linked her A Midsummer's Night Fairy Party for her mother on our 
LINK YOUR PARTY PAGE.  I love this party so much and it just goes to show that NOT every girly party has to be staged for a "little" girl.
We had a magical evening of celebrating my  mother’s birthday…full of laughter, fairies, butterflies, and a  mischievous little puck. But…there was a great sigh of relief as we cut  into the birthday cake, the work was over and we could all simply enjoy  the moment.
Throwing this event was extra fun; we travelled to Virginia to where  my family lives to put it on. As a result, the whole family got to be  involved. My brother helped with the cooking, my father engineered signs  and candleholders and anything else that needed built, my mother  remained silent as I dismantled and redecorated her house, and she, my  sister-in-law and a few old good friends helped craft many of the small  details in the party. And probably most important, my dear husband  wrangled the children while we put the finishing touches on everything.  It was wonderful to have an event that brought us all together!
A few weeks before the party, invitations were sent out. They have a  full craft paper brown enclosure tied with the ribbons that were used  throughout the party, and were adorned with little fairies and some  specially written prose. The fairies were a special touch just for my  mother — they are silhouettes of her little pixie of a granddaughter and  are seen throughout the party decor as well!
. As our guests arrived, we wanted to set the stage a bit…
White branches in teal-tinted metal  buckets hung heavy with votives flanked the path to the door. Votives  were placed up the walkway, with little fairies dancing up the steps.
Inside,  fairies and butterflies fluttered amongst the sweets on the dessert  table. Natural elements such as burlap, river rocks and long branches  tied the beautiful gardens outside the windows into the room.
 
 
 
The items served on the dessert and  appetizer table were specifically chosen because they were Mom’s  favorites, although I admit I have a few new ones now myself, like the  AMAZING strawberry meringues

The  artisan strawberry meringues were so pretty, we had to convince people  they weren’t just decorations. And they tasted even better than they  looked! Sweet Purrfection,  a small artisanal confectionery out of Chicago, provided these light as  air melt in your mouth treats. Perfect flavor, perfect texture, perfect  custom color….they were just perfect! We’ve since tried their other  flavors, and they are ALL fabulous. Erin’s Cake Creations  provided the beautiful custom decoration for the carrot cake and  fondant roses that reflected the paper flowers in the party decor. Girly Gatherings  made the unique sugar cookies with graphics to match the invitation, a  crested “G” and our little fuscia fairy. The live greenery was all  contributed by my mother’s gardens... Each letter of the birthday banner is unique typographic art taken from antique books and available in the public domain. 
Masterpiece Designs  has a wealth of inexpensive imagery and is where I found the beautiful  antique frames. They were perfect for holding Shakespearean quotes!
 
 
My brother and I had such a good time in  the kitchen together preparing the appetizers…apricot brie puffs,  spinach and feta purses, herb crusted pork loin rolls, black bean cakes  with spicy sweet potato sauce and cilantro cream, honey minted fruit and  marinated cheese. 
We mixed up a signature drink for the  night – Love Potion No. 9, otherwise known as a white russian (mom’s  favorite). We’re happy to report Puck’s potion only turned one of our  guests into a lovable donkey.
On the outside deck, fairy lights were  strung on the arbors and trees for atmosphere, and there were many  candles flickering out in the gardens to make for a little fairy magic.  There was  liberal sprinkling of candles, votives and butterflies  through the rooms inside where the party circulated. Fuscia paper  lanterns and paper roses added pops of color.
A party can be thrown without a tissue pouf, but I don’t think I can  ever give up the fun of the photo booth. The grandchildren, dressed as  Puck and Titania, posed for the camera while the adults were able to  play dress up for a moment.
As the guests left, we treated them to a few party favors. Again, one  of mom’s favorites was selected to thank our guest for coming–chocolate  covered oreos. There is a tutorial on how to make these little paper  rose boxes 
here.
What we wanted to bring to our guests at mom’s birthday was a little  feeling of magic, a little whimsy, and something the children attending  the party would find some wonder in as well as the adults. The  Midsummer’s Night Dream underlying theme and deeper color hues made  using fairies for an adult party work, and made the party planning a  little more fun.
Thank you to SandS Photography out of Hampton, Virginia for the party pictures.